Let me tell you a story about a son who loved his mom so very much that he did not want to think that the end was near. He insisted we could tell her story once they got past this hospital stay, when she was feeling better.
But the nurse said there was no time. Phone calls were made, and emails were sent to all who loved her. And the stories of her life, through their eyes, started to arrive. Memories and photos overflowed my inbox.
I stayed up late at night piecing together their stories until the book was full. Full of vibrant photos of when she was young and vibrant photos of when she was old with heartfelt sentiments from those that loved her and knew that they would miss her soon.
Once the book was complete it was delivered to her son. He sat with his mom that night and read to her all of the wonderful memories that were shared. She heard how much she meant to the people in her life, and he was able to have that special time with her reliving those memories and stories.
The next day she passed away. She was able to leave this world feeling loved. I like to think that as those words were read, they were like a warm blanket wrapping around her that night to give comfort and rest.
I share this story to illustrate how powerful and meaningful life storytelling can be. Sometimes it can be too late for someone to tell their own story, but it is never too late for those who loved them to tell it.
This situation was remarkable in that the timing worked out perfectly for her to hear the words of those who loved her. Oftentimes, that is not possible. What is possible is telling the story of a loved one lost for those who remain.
It is never too late to tell a story, but memories fade - for all of us. Capturing memories sooner rather than later ensures that memories will not be forgotten. Storytelling has multiple facets: it is a way to preserve history for future generations and allows you to have clarity and see the meaning of your life, but it is also a way for a family to grieve, process change, and heal.
During this holiday season, I will share storytelling experiences that I hope will resonate in your life, or someone you love, and encourage you to take the next steps in life storytelling.
Let me tell you a story of a life of challenges and triumphs, laughter and tears, regrets, successes, failures, hopes, and dreams. It’s your story.
To learn more about gifting life storytelling to someone you love this holiday season, reach out via email at memoirsbymaureen@icloud.com, visit memoirsbymaureen.com, or call 217.653.1667 mobile.
Wishing you a memorable holiday season,
Maureen
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